Originally Posted by
Shattered Dreams
When I was a teenager, I didn't want kids, than as I grew up, I wanted 3, tried to the do the right thing, got married, husband didn't want kids... got divorced, got into another realtionship and had a beautiful baby girl.. She is my world, my everything... Everyone keeps asking me when I am going ot have another one.. I am not.. I am a good mom, I love my daughter. Her father is psycho.. like needs a padded room with a jacket that buttons in the back type of psycho (he wasn't that bad when we met), so needless to say my daughter does not see her father.. (he has not attempted to make contact in almost a year)..
Now I have a wonderful boyfriend who treats my daugther well.. He also didn't want kids, but got his ex knocked up, and had a son.. and he is a wonderful father! So between the two of us, we have two kids (2 days shy of being exactly 2 years apart). Everyone always says, why dont you two have one.. NOPE.. 1 and done!! We both agree we do not want to start over.. selfish, idk.. My kids are at the age where I can do fun things, (4 & 6) and I just dont wnat to start over.. BOTH OF THEM WHIPE THEIR OWN ASS!!! I really dont want to go back to diapers... Than I get, well what if something happens to your kid, then you dont have any.. well if that is God's plan, there is not much I can do about it.. All I can do is make sure she is loved during her time here..
So people expect women to have kids cause that is women do.. well maybe 100 years ago.. now we are our own people and popping at 15+ kids is not feasable.. So I commend the people on here, who know they dont want kids, and didn't go just popping them out, and abusing and killing these babies... I wish I had the power to make sick bitches like this steriol, and people who want kids and can't have them, be able to conceive.
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