Valentines Day

PvN73 · 02-12-2008, 10:52 PM

Originally Posted by JimC

They are MUCH bigger in real life; I'm looking at them now.

And hey!...I ordered four dozen...and some diamonds; I won't trust this international florist\jeweler again.

I spent $4000.00 for this? Gotta trust the home folks every time and not wait until the last minute to order.

Oh, and my close friends just call me Jim. That "C" is for the people who refer to me as "Mr." JimC.

In keeping with the thread, P, do you celebrate the Day or no?

It is the thought that counts Jim... or as now I will call you J.

No I personally do not do anything, what a rip off day! Though I was planning to send some flowers to myself and pretend they are from someone. haaaaaaa.. oh how sad.

When the ladies get them in the office it always makes me smile - such pretty flowers. I love flowers even if they are not for me.

Ahh Aries - Single Awareness Day - that is hilarious!!!! Crack that Champagne Comedy! haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

knothere · 02-13-2008, 01:12 AM

no id rather be loved every day of the year not just one

**geekygirl** · 02-13-2008, 02:42 AM

Actually, I HATE V-Day, even though I am happily married to a very thoughtful guy who showers me with lots of stuff every year. It's almost embarrassing, because the flowers he sends me are way over the top, and one year I had to ask one of the burly guys to carry it to my desk for me.

Nonetheless, I got married when I was 32, so that meant many years of being single. I always hated it when all the other girls in the office would get flower deliveries except me. I felt so humiliated.

And then the years before I got married when I was in two-year relationship with Mr. A-Hole. I would go all out, make him dinner, buy him nice gifts, somewhat expecting some nice jewelry, or even an engagement ring. But then getting a half-dead single red rose that he bought at 7-11 on the way over. It isn't the price of a gift, it's the thought that counts. What the HELL was he thinking?

But my worst memories of V-Day are from my childhood. Here in the States, school kids are encouraged to bring valentines for all of their classmates. The girl sitting next to me with the Farrah Fawcett bangs would get literally dozens of valentines while I got very few. And some of them contained hate messages, if you can believe that.

With that all said, I got my husband a DVD set of Rogers and Hammerstein musicals, some massage oil and a gift certificate for three (3) massages from me. My kids will be getting some goofy stuff from Bath and Body Works (they practically live in the bath tub) and perhaps a DVD or video game. My Dad is getting a big plate of home-made cookies.

But the bottom line is: I HATE V-DAY!

**SomeChick** · 02-13-2008, 02:53 AM

I tell my husband not to throw away money on things I won't use. All he needs to do is just be himself on that day like any other. To me, that's the best gift ever.

**JefeStone** · 02-13-2008, 03:05 AM

When I was single I loved valentines day. It was the easiest day of the year to pick up some girl in a bar. I think Valentines day is the single biggest day of the year for one night stands. Now days Im doing the dinner and Jewlery thing.

**lulubaines** · 02-13-2008, 03:50 AM

Originally Posted by JefeStone

When I was single I loved valentines day. It was the easiest day of the year to pick up some girl in a bar. I think Valentines day is the single biggest day of the year for one night stands. Now days Im doing the dinner and Jewlery thing.

Oh, you opportunistic predator! I love the way you think.

halogirl5 · 02-13-2008, 05:08 AM

Originally Posted by panda

Is this the same guy who refused your marriage proposal?

Yeah...but it's not like he never buys me things. Presents all the year round, (decent ones) but doens't want to 'conform' as that's what he says V day is...a scam and yes he also says 'I can buy you a present any time i don't need someone to tell me to do it on that day'.
I know I make him sound like a rat, and he's not. He's actually saved my life on more than one occasion. Still, though, a bunch of flowers would be nice

**xoxojessicaxoxo** · 02-13-2008, 09:14 AM

i got my flowers today!

LadyDay · 02-13-2008, 09:28 AM

I'm not really into VD!
However each year we set each other a task. We have to buy each other a present that costs not more than 10 quid. Tomorrow night we're doing nothing special cos neither of us want to be sitting in a restaurant with a load of other couples faking romance.

But on friday we're going to a casino with some friends - now that's my kind of night out.

panda · 02-13-2008, 09:43 AM

Originally Posted by halogirl5

Yeah...but it's not like he never buys me things. Presents all the year round, (decent ones) but doens't want to 'conform' as that's what he says V day is...a scam and yes he also says 'I can buy you a present any time i don't need someone to tell me to do it on that day'.
I know I make him sound like a rat, and he's not. He's actually saved my life on more than one occasion. Still, though, a bunch of flowers would be nice

Well honey, you seem like such a sweetie & us older death hags feel the need to protect our young uns, but if you're happy with him then its all good. Now if he ever abuses you mentally or physically, we will hunt him down & kill him & then stare at his dead corpse while MBALMR shows us the tricks of the trade in body preservation

.

LadyDay · 02-13-2008, 09:47 AM

Originally Posted by halogirl5

Yeah...but it's not like he never buys me things. Presents all the year round, (decent ones) but doens't want to 'conform' as that's what he says V day is...a scam and yes he also says 'I can buy you a present any time i don't need someone to tell me to do it on that day'.
I know I make him sound like a rat, and he's not. He's actually saved my life on more than one occasion. Still, though, a bunch of flowers would be nice

He's right - it is a scam. And he doesn't sound like a rat - just someone who's a bit clued up.

Really - what does that bunch of flowers really mean when he's buying you pressies at other times during the year?

Don't fall for the hype!

**cleanskull** · 02-13-2008, 12:22 PM

Originally Posted by SomeChick

I tell my husband not to throw away money on things I won't use. All he needs to do is just be himself on that day like any other. To me, that's the best gift ever.

Sounds like something my ol' lady would say. I still get her things for putting up with my moody ass.

panda · 02-13-2008, 12:40 PM

Hubby & I don't get much into it either, Valentines & Sweetest Day, hubby calls them Hallmark Holidays! I just think they're silly for us, I think its sweet though when other couples celebrate it.

BooMom · 02-13-2008, 01:19 PM

We'll get each other cards, but that will be it. We chose to spend our extra cash this month taking DS to the rodeo grounds last weekend - the pics we have of him having a blast on the lil mini roller coaster are priceless in our book

Guest · 02-13-2008, 01:57 PM

I opened my door this morning to go get my 6 year old son from school...he only had a half a day today and what was on my porch but flowers he and his father picked up this morning and left on my porch! I was so surprised not because my son who said "you're my Valentine mommy" got me flowers but because his father/my ex actually took him to do it...this man didn't even bring me flowers when I gave birth!

as far as my boyfriend is concerned...we are doing our thing on Saturday night...he's coming over...we're going to dinner and a movie then back to my place for a little somethin somethin...I got a really cute teddy that I "tried on" at the store...actually I didn't...I just threw it on the floor...if it looks good then I buy it!

he's not obligated to get me anything...but something would be nice from an actual boyfriend...my ex husband (not my son's dad) used to give me the SAME CARD year after year...he would dig it out and add the date and the year to it...CHEAP SON OF A BITCH!

PvN73 · 02-13-2008, 03:07 PM

Originally Posted by xoxojessicaxoxo

i got my flowers today!

they are GEORGEOUS!!!! Just like you Jessica.

Today is Valentines day here but no one yet has got any flowers. I am waiting to see how gets something! how very lovely

lisalouver · 02-13-2008, 03:22 PM

Valentines Day has always been a fun holiday for me, but this year I am single, so I will be spending it with my daughter. We are attending a party at her pre-school tomorrow night with pizza and ice cream!

I get a gift from my Dad every year and my daughter has always been my Valentine since she was born (she is 4) and so I got her a gift.

I hate chocolate, but love flowers, so I will get myself some of my fave flowers (stargazer lillies) and go to the party!

When I was with my ex, we would go out to eat and exchange small gifts. Although last year was a great Tiffany necklace!

Heart shaped pizzas are always fun too.

endsleigh03 · 02-13-2008, 04:36 PM

Originally Posted by Dearheart

I opened my door this morning to go get my 6 year old son from school...he only had a half a day today and what was on my porch but flowers he and his father picked up this morning and left on my porch! I was so surprised not because my son who said "you're my Valentine mommy" got me flowers but because his father/my ex actually took him to do it...this man didn't even bring me flowers when I gave birth!

as far as my boyfriend is concerned...we are doing our thing on Saturday night...he's coming over...we're going to dinner and a movie then back to my place for a little somethin somethin...I got a really cute teddy that I "tried on" at the store...actually I didn't...I just threw it on the floor...if it looks good then I buy it!

he's not obligated to get me anything...but something would be nice from an actual boyfriend...my ex husband (not my son's dad) used to give me the SAME CARD year after year...he would dig it out and add the date and the year to it...CHEAP SON OF A BITCH!

Dearheart, you must be joking about same card year-after-year! What a schmuck

Guest · 02-13-2008, 04:55 PM

Originally Posted by endsleigh03

Dearheart, you must be joking about same card year-after-year! What a schmuck

no seriously I'm not...he was so cheap! he never in the 11 years we were married actually BOUGHT me flowers...he gave them to me...but he didn't pay for them...one time he forgot to check them for a card..the card read "Rest in Peace Granny we love you!" that's right...my ex husband used to steal flowers from the cemetery and give them to me at holidays...I said he was cheap and yes he's a schmuck too!

PvN73 · 02-13-2008, 04:58 PM

Originally Posted by Dearheart

no seriously I'm not...he was so cheap! he never in the 11 years we were married actually BOUGHT me flowers...he gave them to me...but he didn't pay for them...one time he forgot to check them for a card..the card read "Rest in Peace Granny we love you!" that's right...my ex husband used to steal flowers from the cemetery and give them to me at holidays...I said he was cheap and yes he's a schmuck too!

OH

MY

GOD...

That is too funny! Glad you kicked him to the curb.... looks like he belongs there in the gutter.

**JimC** · 02-13-2008, 05:04 PM

Originally Posted by panda

Well honey, you seem like such a sweetie & us older death hags feel the need to protect our young uns, but if you're happy with him then its all good. Now if he ever abuses you mentally or physically, we will hunt him down & kill him & then stare at his dead corpse while MBALMR shows us the tricks of the trade in body preservation

.

And I will take the pictures and videos to be posted here for all of the Hags who must attend remotely.

**JimC** · 02-13-2008, 05:12 PM

Originally Posted by JefeStone

When I was single I loved valentines day. It was the easiest day of the year to pick up some girl in a bar. I think Valentines day is the single biggest day of the year for one night stands. Now days Im doing the dinner and Jewlery thing.

Quite the romantic in your younger years, Jefe.

Why hasn't some guy published that useful bit of information before now?

Daphne · 02-13-2008, 05:17 PM

celebrating Valentines day was in my past... LOL NO I am not celebrating it, I got nobody to celebrate it with!!

**JimC** · 02-13-2008, 05:32 PM

Originally Posted by Daphne

celebrating Valentines day was in my past... LOL NO I am not celebrating it, I got nobody to celebrate it with!!

Well,

You have us. We aren't much; but we're here for you; with you.

Daphne · 02-13-2008, 05:42 PM

Originally Posted by JimC

Well,

You have us. We aren't much; but we're here for you; with you.

Thank you! Actually, you guys mean tons!! thank so much!!!

Flowergrrl · 02-13-2008, 06:05 PM

Originally Posted by Dearheart

no seriously I'm not...he was so cheap! he never in the 11 years we were married actually BOUGHT me flowers...he gave them to me...but he didn't pay for them...one time he forgot to check them for a card..the card read "Rest in Peace Granny we love you!" that's right...my ex husband used to steal flowers from the cemetery and give them to me at holidays...I said he was cheap and yes he's a schmuck too!

Queen_Death_Hag · 02-13-2008, 06:20 PM

Daphne · 02-13-2008, 06:23 PM

Originally Posted by Queen_Death_Hag

Heh, EGG freaking ZACTLY!! however, my valentinelos goes to you!!!! Love ya!!

**Finnegan** · 02-13-2008, 08:29 PM

Originally Posted by Dearheart

that's right...my ex husband used to steal flowers from the cemetery and give them to me at holidays...I said he was cheap and yes he's a schmuck too!

holy crap
all these losers are making bob look better and better

djdeath-hag · 02-13-2008, 08:32 PM

Originally Posted by Queen_Death_Hag

Priceless, QDH! Thank you! I dunno if it will make you feel any better if (as someone who IS in a relationship) I tell you to focus on some simple facts....the dirty laundry & dishes are all yours, the bills are racked up by you alone and there is some comfort in being & feeling self-reliant. I realize that these sentiments are hollow if you are alone & wish that you were not...but TRY to find joy in the space that you are in. If that doesn't work for you, focus on the stessful night before Valentine's Day when, as a kid, you had to frantically write something nice...even if it was just someone else's name for each classmate! Damn I hated that annual tradition!

More Cheese Please · 02-13-2008, 08:43 PM

Originally Posted by Queen_Death_Hag

Exactly!!!

Mrs. James Dean · 02-13-2008, 09:07 PM

Originally Posted by More Cheese Please

Exactly!!!

LOL

Queen_Death_Hag · 02-13-2008, 09:24 PM

I love this card! j/k

**geekygirl** · 02-14-2008, 12:33 AM

Okay, this really sucks. California passed a law that prevents schools from selling or serving candy, cookies, junk food, soda pop and other treats. My kids go to a private school and every Friday would be cupcake day, where the kids could buy a cupcake for $0.25, I think the cupcakes were donated by a local bakery. The money would be saved up all year and they would end up donating several thousand dollars to a charity.

Still worse, no more school parties where the kids could have candy, cookies or any other normal treat like they would for Halloween, Christmas or VALENTINE'S DAY!!! GRRR!!! So tonight me and my kids put together their valentines for the classes with pencils taped on. What fun is that? I don't know, maybe it's me, but isn't one of the joys of childhood to be able to eat yourself silly with chocolate, red hots and those little heart candies that have writing on them?

I am pissed, but my kids don't have a problem with it so I am going to let it rest. Grrrrrrr!

endsleigh03 · 02-14-2008, 05:12 AM

Originally Posted by geekygirl

Okay, this really sucks. California passed a law that prevents schools from selling or serving candy, cookies, junk food, soda pop and other treats. My kids go to a private school and every Friday would be cupcake day, where the kids could buy a cupcake for $0.25, I think the cupcakes were donated by a local bakery. The money would be saved up all year and they would end up donating several thousand dollars to a charity.

Still worse, no more school parties where the kids could have candy, cookies or any other normal treat like they would for Halloween, Christmas or VALENTINE'S DAY!!! GRRR!!! So tonight me and my kids put together their valentines for the classes with pencils taped on. What fun is that? I don't know, maybe it's me, but isn't one of the joys of childhood to be able to eat yourself silly with chocolate, red hots and those little heart candies that have writing on them?

I am pissed, but my kids don't have a problem with it so I am going to let it rest. Grrrrrrr!

People aren't happy unless they suck the fun right out of everything.

**neilmpenny** · 02-14-2008, 05:33 AM

Happy Valentines to all

Snoopy · 02-14-2008, 05:39 AM

LMAO..that's perfect! Happy Valentine's Day Hags!

**xoxojessicaxoxo** · 02-14-2008, 06:41 AM

we had our valentines day yesterday, out to eat at a fancy italian place, then home to give him his gift of boxers and beer. happy valentines day!

**neilmpenny** · 02-14-2008, 06:44 AM

I bought some perfume back from Dubai for my princess.

smellslikealmonds · 02-14-2008, 06:45 AM

I told my husband not to get me anything.
What does he do? He brings in candy this morning.
Do I look like I need any f****** candy?

divaghosty · 02-14-2008, 06:47 AM

HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY EVERYONE!!!

**SheBoss** · 02-14-2008, 06:54 AM

Happy Valentine's Day All!

P.S. LOVE the card above!

**amaranthaseven** · 02-14-2008, 07:15 AM

Geez, Dearheart, I thought guys that stole flowers off of people's graves only existed in comedies! You're well rid of him! That was a nice surprise from your other ex and your son. Maybe your son brings out his better side.

I bought my husband a card and a small floral arrangement for his desk- he's working from home today, so I might actually see him. I lavished a lot more attention on the kids- they'll get a kick out of it, and be more disappointed than the hubby if I downplay it. They're all having cards and goodies at school (my daughter isn't having goodies, she's at a Montessori school that doesn't allow them).

The public schools are funny; you can't have a Halloween party, and dress up anymore, but they have a "Harvest Party" that's basically the same.

So the kids will be all revved up on chocolate at bedtime! Yay for me.

I think we're going to have a romantic evening catching up on "Dexter" episodes.

panda · 02-14-2008, 07:19 AM

Originally Posted by Dearheart

no seriously I'm not...he was so cheap! he never in the 11 years we were married actually BOUGHT me flowers...he gave them to me...but he didn't pay for them...one time he forgot to check them for a card..the card read "Rest in Peace Granny we love you!" that's right...my ex husband used to steal flowers from the cemetery and give them to me at holidays...I said he was cheap and yes he's a schmuck too!

OMG I always felt those cemetary thieves were one of the lowest forms of life! What a jerk, glad you got rid of him. The flowers today were very nice, I'm sure your son's idea & his daddy probably made him use his allowance or piggy bank money! Glad your son does not take after his dad in that respect.

Snudgie · 02-14-2008, 07:20 AM

Happy Valentine's Day you sexy death hags!! You are all fabulous and gorgeous!

Mwah!!

Maruz83 · 02-14-2008, 07:20 AM

Am going out to night with my girl-friends were going to Apple-Bee's and having FUCK YOU for not getting me shit drinks !!!! Anyone want to joing were here in Va Beach!!

divaghosty · 02-14-2008, 07:23 AM

Originally Posted by geekygirl

Okay, this really sucks. California passed a law that prevents schools from selling or serving candy, cookies, junk food, soda pop and other treats. My kids go to a private school and every Friday would be cupcake day, where the kids could buy a cupcake for $0.25, I think the cupcakes were donated by a local bakery. The money would be saved up all year and they would end up donating several thousand dollars to a charity.

Still worse, no more school parties where the kids could have candy, cookies or any other normal treat like they would for Halloween, Christmas or VALENTINE'S DAY!!! GRRR!!! So tonight me and my kids put together their valentines for the classes with pencils taped on. What fun is that? I don't know, maybe it's me, but isn't one of the joys of childhood to be able to eat yourself silly with chocolate, red hots and those little heart candies that have writing on them?

I am pissed, but my kids don't have a problem with it so I am going to let it rest. Grrrrrrr!

The law applies to private schools as well???

well, rather than teach kids self control and proper portion control just take it away from them completely and punish the average/normal sized kids in the process. Yeah, makes total sense

panda · 02-14-2008, 07:23 AM

Originally Posted by endsleigh03

People aren't happy unless they suck the fun right out of everything.

Aint it the truth.

Maruz83 · 02-14-2008, 07:27 AM

Originally Posted by divaghosty

The law applies to private schools as well???

well, rather than teach kids self control and proper portion control just take it away from them completely and punish the average/normal sized kids in the process. Yeah, makes total sense

Thank you !! Teach them that a little candy is okay but not the whole bag !!! I hate schoolls now a days.....

divaghosty · 02-14-2008, 07:31 AM

Originally Posted by Maruz83

Thank you !! Teach them that a little candy is okay but not the whole bag !!! I hate schoolls now a days.....

I am still shocked that the new law applies to private schools!

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