Originally Posted by
TaupinJohn
I don't draw a real comparison to this family and one of gay parents. From everything I've seen, gay couples are every bit as competent as straight ones, perhaps more as they're likely a bit more less judgmental than most. I've never seen anything to dispute that the children of gay marriage experience anything in their childhood that differs much from that of straight couples.
Them seem as loved, protected, and provided for as a child can be, and I've never heard of a child raised by a gay couple who had any trouble whatsoever adjusting later in life because of who his parents were. They may have their share of problems, but so do we all.
This family, though, it's dysfunctional as hell. The father cannot be enough, sharing himself among four families. For him to think that is enough is sickening to me. It is not okay to watch your dad packing a bag to "go courting." I don't care how you interpret the Bible, it is not normal and it does not make you cool. He acts as though his wife-of-the-night is lucky to have him and so do the wives. There is tension in the air that one could cut with a knife, and I absolutely believe it is a constant battle of who he favors above the rest, with the youngest winning out (until another comes along).
I've heard at least one of the girls say they'd like a polygamous relationship, as well. Why? They talk about having those intimate relationships with their "sister wives" -- what the hell? I get it, we do as we see done. They're saying what they've heard their mothers say and to them, seriously: Grow up, Dumbass. There are children now, as many as you can have, apparently, so it's not all about you anymore. The girls are raised to believe that they aren't enough, that a man requires more than them to make him whole, and that is bullshit. Maybe you think you could not possibly be enough to be a man's sole partner, but what about your daughters? You okay with them sleeping alone, with their "sisters" sleeping with their husband in the next room? You good with that?
Yeah Cody, we get it. You found four women with very little self-esteem (or who wanted the drama of the competition) -- congratulations! You have won 16 kids who're gonna need therapy for the rest of their lives! But that's not all! You'll also enjoy a lifetime of being laughed at, ridiculed, and ostracized because you think you're some sort of prophet to these women, each of whom deserve more than you on your best day! Enjoy, Cody, and thanks for playing Who Wants To Be an Asshole with us!
(Just my opinion, play nice, guys...)