I have read a lot of the comments left here, and i saw the interviews with this mom done on tv. Now what i am wondering is, What gives anyone the right to cast a stone at this women's choices? Does it not say in the bible that he without sin cast the first stone? Which one of you people has never made a decision in your life that someone somewhere has said, Why? Who are we as a nation to critizise anyone for their choices in life? If this woman feels that she can give the love and attention to all those babies (and yes i mean all 14 of them), who are we to pass judgement on her? Has anyone of you that suggested she adopt children ever tried to be a single person trying to adopt a baby? It isn't very easy for any single person to adopt. Courts actually try not to give any child to a single person. And as far as her donating her embryo's to someone else who wants a baby and can't have one, think about this, If you knew you had babies out there, how do you know for sure without any doubts that they are being taken care of properly? The only way to know for sure that your children are not being abused, whether physically or mentally, is to have them yourself. I myself have 5 children, by the grace of god, and i have suffered 10 miscarriages, mine were all natural conceptions though, but if i hadn't had all those miscarriages i would have 15 natural born children, would you have done and said the same about me? Have any of you ever been unfortunate to have had a miscarriage? I know a little about what this woman felt after trying to have children and not being able to have them without the ivf.
I personally wish her all the best wishes in the world and at least she has a game plan to be able to support her children, unlike the hundreds of thousands of women having children just to stay on state cash assistance. Check your state statistics of how many
woman are receiving cash assistance and not out looking for work and then having more children just so they don't lose that assistance. I don't see anyone here commenting on that instead of attacking a woman's decision to have children. Yeah so what she has 14, no she didn't plan on having that many but that seems to be all that you people are focusing on. No she isn't working at this time, but she is in graduate school and plans on finishing and supporting her own children,
which is more than i can say for a majority of the people in this country that are on "welfare".
If you listened very closely last night, you would have heard her say that her receiving food stamps is just a temporary thing for her as she plans on getting off that help just as soon as possible. And how many of you, have never, ever in your life needed any kind of help, whether it be babysitters, cash, food, or emotional support from time to time? We all do if we truely admit that we are human.
In closing all i have to say to all of you that just want to focus on the negativity, GET A LIFE AND LEAVE THIS WOMAN it was her choice to do this and now she alone has to live with it.