Sophie's Choice was done in 82. My wife wanted to see it. I went thinking "chick flick". I haved thought about that movie everyday since. I used that movie to teach my kids when they were young about the impact of slavery. One time my daughter was being a wise ass about a history assignment on the Civil War and said something like `big deal`. I asked her if she had to save her mother or me and she had to pick one or we would both be killed "which one of us dies?" She couldn't answer. Lesson learned.